We're at the Half Way Mark!

Yesterday was JD's first day of 6th grade. Where has time gone? I made this picture collage of his first days of school since he started VPK when he was almost four. I vividly remember taking that photo of him in his classroom - he was so nervous - I was so nervous! Those were REALLY hard days. Developmentally and academically he was so behind. He had really difficult behavior problems and limited communication skills. I wish I knew then what I knew now.

Fast forward to 6th grade and we are light years ahead. JD is a math whiz. He also loves writing creative stories and drawing. He at grade level on most subjects except reading comprehension, but that's mainly a matter of the topic of the story and whether or not he's interested in learning about it!

I remember when he was first diagnosed scouring the interest looking for blogs or videos from parents with kids who had autism to get an idea of what the future for JD looked like. There wasn't a lot there though - usually people would blog or take videos and then eventually there posts would go away as time went on. I get it - life gets in the way and you get busy. But I don't want to be one of those parents who only focused on the journey in the beginning because it DOES get easier. At least for us it did. And if that inspires one other parent out there whose child just got diagnosed then it's worth it!

If I could say anything it would be: your child will make progress. It may not be as quickly as you'd like, or as much as you'd hope, but if you're working with them and providing as much support at home and school as you can, they WILL grow. And you'll be surprised - they'll probably exceed all of your expectations so keep them high! Don't worry too much about the future. Focus on the right now. (I say that in hindsight because I constantly worried about the future when JD was little!) I still worry, but not nearly as much. I know he will continue to grow and become more independent.

So we're half way to 12th grade. I don't know how it happened so quickly. Like they always say, the days go slowly but the years go by fast. Next thing I know he'll be a senior and (hopefully!) looking at higher level education!

Here's to those of you out there who are just starting your journey. Don't get discouraged. If you fall down, fight to get back up. Listen to your gut. You know your child better than anyone. Their needs will change every year. What works great now might not work then and vice versa. Just keep moving forward and loving your child because that's the best therapy of all!